When I was struggling with this question—how do you keep going when you can't see if it's working—I found wisdom in one of the most consequential moments in American history. Abraham Lincoln. October 3rd, 1863. A man whose consistent leadership literally held our nation together during its darkest hour. The Civil War is tearing the country apart. Brothers fighting brothers. The outcome? Completely uncertain. The future of the Union itself hangs in the balance. And in the middle of this crisis, this president—carrying the weight of a fragmenting nation on his shoulders—issues the first national Thanksgiving Proclamation. But here's what's remarkable about what he wrote: "The year that is drawing towards its close, has been filled with the blessings of fruitful fields and healthful skies. To these bounties, which are so constantly enjoyed that we are prone to forget the source from which they come..."

Are you watching your calling being held back by unhealthy patterns you've been tolerating? That's exactly where I found myself in January 2025. After...