A U.S. Army Veteran and occupational therapist, Kirsten Holley is saving lives and inspiring all by sharing advice for finding hope.
Coming from a long line of military family members, honor and selfless service represent core values for Kirsten.
Advice for Finding Hope from a U.S. Army Veteran
Lessons from Kirsten’s story:
- Listen to your heart and follow your calling
- Whatever you do, serve others
- Seek out like-minded individuals
Being Brave Enough to Follow Her Calling
Kirsten received her commission through the Reserve Officer Training Course, and entered active duty as an occupational therapist.
Serving and treating wounded and/or injured service members was so much more than just a profession to Kirsten, she truly believes it was a calling.
Serving in Combat
In 2012, Kirsten deployed to Afghanistan and credits this experience as the number one, most challenging, influential, and rewarding time frame of her professional career.
This opportunity was a culminating event for her clinical skill set as she addressed the mind, body, and spirit of service members with upper extremity injuries, emotional/physiological concerns, and/or sustained traumatic brain injuries.
the bad times in life put us on a direct path to the very best
Kirsten Holley, on maintaining an outlook of survival
Kirsten felt like she had the most impact on service members in this setting since her work often began within the first few hours after injury and could last for a few days to a few weeks.
“I believe that sometimes the bad times in our life put us on a direct path to the very best times in our life… you just need to be respective and elicit mental flexibility,” says Kirsten.
Stepping Back Into Life: After Trauma
Kirsten was present for the physical and emotional roller coasters that service members experience throughout post injury. Her deep sense of internal strength allowed her to help provide them with the reassurance, confidence, and coping skills necessary in order to return to life outside of treatment.
Deployment also taught Kirsten important lessons regarding mental resiliency, such as perspective, finding the joy in bad situations, and the physical/emotional power of a simple laugh or smile.
Finding Meaning Outside of Military Service
Kirsten recently transitioned out of the military after serving 9 years. Today, she struggles with this transition on a daily basis; experiencing periods of significant grief and loss.
Immediately following coming off active duty, Kirsten moved to Michigan with her husband and two young sons in support of her husband’s military career.
As if leaving the military wasn’t hard enough, moving to a state in which she didn’t know anyone, and staying home with her sons full time, Kirsten quickly began to feel isolated, overwhelmed, and struggled to find a higher sense of purpose and meaning within her civilian life.
Advice for Strong Women
Kirsten relied heavily on her resiliency and faith during the tough times.
A significant turning point for Kirsten (during her adjustment to civilian life) has been meeting the like-minded ladies that are part of HelloMissilia and Woman Veteran Strong, the Michigan Women of the Military Peer Support Group Program.
She says that the bond with these ladies is unparalleled to any civilian friendship.
Through recreational opportunities the women participate in, and simply the camaraderie shared amongst them, Kirsten feels she is not only on a path of healing, but is also able to seek the desire to serve and lead a meaningful life in other ways.
How you can Support the Mission:
In recognition of Kirsten’s strength and courage to overcome adversity, Dave LaLonde, a fellow Veteran and owner of Rifle Marketing, is making it possible for us to share her story. Rifle Marketing is treating Kirsten to a 1-year subscription to the HelloMissilia box. If your company or organization supports strong women, please consider sponsoring our heroes by checking out our Sponsorship Information or emailing info@hellomissilia.com.
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