"I knew how big of a competitive advantage it was that I didn't want others to know what I was doing." The following year, he jumped from barely keeping his tour card to finishing 10th on the Order of Merit. All from learning to breathe properly.
The lesson for leaders? Sometimes your missing competitive advantage isn't a complex strategy—it's mastering something you do 20,000 times a day without thinking about it.
And so, let's consider that we don't misread each other because we don't care. We misread each other because we've been leaning so hard into our own patterns — the way we connect, the way we process, the way we show love — that we never stop to ask what the woman across from us needs to actually receive it.
