The national holiday of Memorial Day was created to honor the fallen men and women who died while serving in the U.S. military. It is a somber holiday; one that is not just about thanks, but remembrance.
Straight from the mouths of military veterans, here are five ways to honor our fallen brethren.
Forever our family, friends, loved ones, heroes.
Sadly, many Americans have come to view this national holiday as just another day off work. That’s why we’ve put together this quick list of 5 things you can do to respectfully participate in the true meaning of Memorial Day.
5 Ways to Honor the Fallen on Memorial Day
1. Attend a Cemetery Event
The National Cemetery Administration is hosting Memorial Day ceremonies at U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs national cemeteries across the country. Their website offers a host of information on not just attending events, but also locating graves, scheduling burials and exploring burial benefits.
Many of the Memorial Day events change from year to year. It’s best to check the website often for the latest announcements and event information: https://www.cem.va.gov/
2. Join a Parade
Based in Metro Detroit, the Others Over Self® Team is fortunate enough to be centrally located near one of the largest and most meaningful Memorial Day Parades in the country. The city of St. Clair Shores dedicates an enormous amount of resources to honoring the fallen respectfully with their annual parade.
Every year, our team takes the time to study and learn the stories of fallen heroes. Then, at this parade and others, we honor their memory by walking with memorial plaques in their honor.
To locate parade near you, search your internet browser for “memorial day parades” and your hometown or zip code.
3. Have an Honest Conversation With a Veteran
The passer-by, “thank you for your service,” line is much appreciated. However, that line is more appropriate on Veterans Day.
On Memorial Day, we remember those who have served and fallen. This means that veterans are most likely experiencing grief. When you have the opportunity, engage with a military person in a conversation. Ask questions like, “Where have you served?” and, “Why did you join?”
Be sure to include all genders and races, and keep politics out of it.
If you’re brave enough to act on this, before you do so, we recommend checking out our 21-page Article, “Make a Meaningful Connection With Military People: Service Members, Veterans and Military Families.”
4. Enjoy your freedoms respectfully & responsibly
If you’re lucky enough to get a day off work around Memorial Day, keep in mind that it is because of those who have paid the ultimate sacrifice.
When we engage in immoral behaviors that negatively affect others, it is disrespectful not only to our fallen service members, but to all those directly and indirectly involved. There is a big difference between a barbecue with friends and a slosh-fest that could result in a drunk driving incident.
Always have designated drivers available. If none are, then it becomes your responsibility to remain sober and see that your family and friends arrive home safely. Trust us – the buddy system saves lives.
5. Finally, Engage in a Moment of Silent Gratitude
Regardless of your spiritual beliefs, every human being has a spirit. Engaging in moments of gratitude give your soul continued happiness and peace. Actively participate in the moment of silence if one is being presented. Or, take time to step away from the crowd to observe your own appreciation for your freedoms with reverence.
And for those who do believe in God, with an honest and open heart, thank your Creator for utilizing the sacrifices of the men and women that have gone before you to protect our freedoms. Whether the prayer is done publicly or privately, keep it genuine.
Honoring the Fallen This Memorial Day
Now, you have five ways that you can earnestly honor the brave men and women that have given their lives for our country:
- Attend a Cemetery Event
- Join a Parade
- Have an Honest Conversation With a Veteran
- Enjoy your freedoms respectfully & responsibly
- Engage in a Moment of Silent Gratitude
Finally, remember that most service members have a personal connection to someone who has given their life in combat. Reaching out to them and honoring their spirit is the greatest gift you can give.
